"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny."
Who is there to blame?
There's no one to blame. It's easier when there is, but it gets better when there's not, even if the getting better takes forever. It's the worth the wait. To blame is to forget. We forget the power we have within ourselves--the power to forgive and the power to honor our accountability. We're responsible for our chaos, no one else, and these are the first few mental steps we have to take when choosing to design our destiny rather than ungratefully except the one we don't want, the one being handed to us daily. We can stop and make some changes. There is time. Life is short, but there's always time to make it sweet. With the power of the mind affixed on the power of the spirit, the spirit within you, and with the power of honesty, we can learn how to administer and control our habitual and uncontrolled thought patterns, creating space inside of our minds, expanding and transpiring a revelation. We become wise. We think bigger with an expanded, open mind. This is when we'll truly change the course of our lives--when we generate the power from within ourselves and actually begin to change our thinking. We all suffer from chronic thinking, it's a disease, absolutely. When we realize we have this disease, everything begins all over again. We start over like re-birth and we change our lives like re-incarnation, and we change our destiny. Nothing ends, unless you think it does. When we think it, we live it and so life is what it is. We have to take responsibility for every single thing we do and say. Our thoughts and our words spawn our fate, we can't control that, but we can chose our thoughts and our words more wisely. We can chose anything and we can make everything change with the simple powers of thought and choice. We could chose LOVE more often. That's a good start. Let's start with love.
Destiny will be what we want it to be when we love.
My love to you,